Marcus Aurelius · 121–180 CE
Meditations 11.13 — Marcus Aurelius
Translation by George Long (1862)
Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 11.13
Suppose any man shall despise me. Let him look to that himself. But I will look to this, that I be not discovered doing or saying anything deserving of contempt. Shall any man hate me? Let him look to it. But I will be mild and benevolent towards every man, and ready to show even him his mistake, not reproachfully, nor yet as making a display of my endurance, but nobly and honestly, like the great Phocion, unless indeed he only assumed it. For the interior parts ought to be such, and a man ought to be seen by the gods neither dissatisfied with anything nor complaining. For what evil is it to thee, if thou art now doing what is agreeable to thy own nature, and art satisfied with that which at this moment is suitable to the nature of the universe, since thou art a human being placed at thy post in order that what is for the common advantage may be done in some way?
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Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 11.13, tr. George Long (1862)
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AI-written notesIf someone despises or hates you, that is their business, and your business is to make sure you never do or say anything worthy of contempt and to stay gentle and kind, even correcting their mistakes honestly, without reproach or showing off your patience. What harm is it to you when you are doing what suits your nature?
Older wording
- “benevolent”
- — kindly and well-meaning
- “Phocion”
- — an Athenian statesman admired for his honesty and calm
Themes and situations
- Insult and criticism
- Anger
- Kindness and forgiveness
- Reputation and others' opinions
- Virtue and character
- Being criticised or insulted
- Being angry with someone
- Conflict at work
- A difficult boss
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