Epictetus · c. 50 – c. 135 CE
Discourses 4.6 ¶4 — Epictetus
From “Against Those Who Lament Over Being Pitied”
Translation by George Long (1877)
Epictetus, Discourses 4.6 ¶4
But you say, “others will get more and be preferred to me.”—What then is more reasonable than for those who have labored about anything to have more in that thing in which they have labored? They have labored for power, you have labored about opinions; and they have labored for wealth, you for the proper use of appearances. See if they have more than you in this about which you have labored, and which they neglect; if they assent better than you with respect to the natural rules (measures) of things; if they are less disappointed than you in their desires; if they fall less into things which they would avoid than you do; if in their intentions, if in the things which they propose to themselves, if in their purposes, if in their motions towards an object they take a better aim; if they better observe a proper behavior, as men, as sons, as parents, and so on as to the other names by which we express the relations of life. But if they exercise power, and you do not, will you not choose to tell yourself the truth, that you do nothing for the sake of this (power), and they do all? But it is most unreasonable that he who looks after anything should obtain less than he who does not look after it.
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Epictetus, Discourses 4.6 ¶4, tr. George Long (1877)
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In plain English
AI-written notesIf others get more power or money, ask who actually worked for it. People who put effort into wealth and position reasonably end up with more of them, so check honestly whether they are better than you at what you care about, such as wanting and avoiding well and treating others decently. It is unreasonable to resent winning at a game you chose not to play.
Older wording
- “assent”
- — agree to, accept as true
- “appearances”
- — the impressions your mind receives of things
Themes and situations
- Envy and comparison
- Ambition and success
- Judgements and impressions
- Virtue and character
- Envy and comparison
- A career setback
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